The many ways to say "I"

 
 
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Hello again, and welcome. Before we start I'd like to remind you to keep in mind that these articles are purely for understanding purposes. These aren't meant to teach you how to speak, they are meant to teach you how to think like a Rokuganese.

Let us start this month with "I". While "I" in English is very straight forward, in Japanese just by saying "I" you open a window into your personality! Are you a nice guy? A tough guy? Is the person you're talking to considered a friend to you or is it purely business? Just by saying "I" you can communicate all of this information. But be warned, a well placed "I" may please your guest, a badly placed "I" could mean the end of your career.

*Note that after each explanation I will name a few Personalities from Rokugan who would use them. If you do not know of the person I speak of just e-mail me for more information.

Watashi: The most commonly known way to say "I". Many would think that this is the only way. Far from it, I assure you. While it's true that watashi closely reassembles the English "I", it bears much more meaning then one might think. If spoken by a man, watashi sounds formal, so as to show respect to the person you are talking to. Although you might think to use it to talk to a friend would be appropriate, watashi might sound like you don't consider this person a close friend, more like an acquaintance. The opposite also holds true, would you use a normal common formal word to speak to a high ranking superior? Unless you don't care about etiquette, I'd say no.
So how can you use watashi? Use it to talk to someone of similar rank whom you do not know much about, to show him your honour, while not lowering yourself too much.
In Rokugan watashi would be commonly used by all, a Phoenix meeting a minor crane delegate would most probably use it. A Crab trying to sound polite might use it to talk to a superior of an other clan.
*It is interesting to note that watashi used by a woman isn't considered as polite.

Watakushi: As you may have already guessed, it is related to watashi. Simply put, it is a more formal, if not the most formal, way to say "I". Used by politicians, courtiers and such when speaking to an elder, a person of higher rank and royalty. Watakushi brings with it a feeling of a true gentleman, a person who knows when and how to show respect. In a business meeting it would be wise to use it, but in an informal conversation one would get many strange looks for it is much to polite to use elsewhere then in very formal conversation. In Rokugan a Crane courtier's favorite word would be watakushi. They would use it and abuse it, for it is normal that a perfect Crane would use such a perfect word. The Scorpion would use it to sound trustworthy; who other then an honorable man would use such a word after all? Characters like Miya Shoin, Agasha Chieh and other young and honourable Samurai would most probably use it.

Shosei: Literally, "small life". The most polite and serious way there is to say "I". Almost too polite and almost only used by man. This would only be used in a business situation. As the word implies, when you say Shosei you are stating that what you are saying is your opinion but that your life is small compare to the person you are talking to, so what you say may not be as wise as his/her honourable long life. Lowering yourself to show the greatest of respect to your guess. As one can imagine, use this world carefully, never to an equal unless you want them to think their honour is above yours.
In Rokugan it would always be used by Shosuro Higatsuku when talking to Kaneka, and Doji Yasuyo when talking to Kozue.

Atashi: A woman only word (though also used by gay men). Probably the most commonly used "I" for women. Atashi has a friendly/casual sound to it, used to show good friendship. For a woman to use it with you would means that she considers you a friend and that this conversation in no way is business related.
Bayushi Kachiko would have used it when talking to Doji Hoturi, Doji Domotai when talking to Doji Nagori and Akasha talking to Moto Chen. *It is interesting to note that atashi HAS to be spoken gently, if not then it is advisable to use another "I".

Uchi: Literally, my house/family. When talking about house affairs or about someone of your family uchi is most common. It simply shows a strong bond between you and the subject, that it is "yours". Example, Uchi no chichiue wa tsuyoi desu "My father is a strong man". Uchi isn't considered very polite. Washi: we've covered young people, women, and men, but this one is reserved for the elderly. If a young person was to use it that person would get ridiculed for using such and strange "I". A person using washi is simply stating that they are older, a somewhat polite way to talk to anyone, as old people shouldn't have to lower themselves to just anyone. In a formal business situation one would still use the more polite "I" covered previously.
In Rokugan, older character such as Kozue, Agasha Hamanari and Bayushi Yojiro would use washi in informal to slightly formal conversation.
*It is interesting to note that again, mostly only men use washi; women would use watashi instead.
*Also note that some "slang" variant of washi exists, they are wate and wai.
Ware is another version which sound more serious then washi.

Boku: Another man only word. It is polite and casual at the same time and should be used only in such situations. One would not use boku in a very formal meeting, as boku is too kind for such meetings. Also one would not use boku in a very casual conversation with close friends or with one's wife. Use it with people of similar status as for you to sound polite yet friendly, and not to elevate yourself over your peers. An other use for this word is by little boys (or when talking to them). Boku has a little bit of a "mama's boy" sound to it for that reason it is a very common way for boys to say "I" and also explains why you shouldn't use it in very polite meetings.
In Rokugan it'd be commonly used by children (boys) and any "kind" character talking to a fellow man.

Ore: Yet again, a man only word. The most casual way to talk to a friends. Never, ever, used when talking to an elder or stranger! Troublemakers often use it to sound a bit tough, especially by rolling the "r" in ore. To use ore in a conversation shows that this conversation is very relaxed, and that the person you are talking to is a good friend. This would be a good way to say "I" when talking to your wife or girlfriend, but not a good way to talk to your parents unless you are angry or want to make a point.
In Rokugan ore would the choice word of the Crab, Mantis and Moto Unicorn as the word carries little honour but much frankness. Would be use by a young Shiba Aikune, Kokujin, and Moto Chen.

Sessha: The "I" of the warrior. Just by saying sessha you imply that you are a man of war, a warrior! This would mostly never be used by Shugenja, as Shugenja are supposed to be men of peace, but would often be used by Samurai, Ninja and such. The very pronunciation of this word brings an atmosphere of battle and war. Great generals and samurai who has seen many battles would use this word as show that they are warriors, ready for war. This "I" would be used by almost all Lion bushi and even some of the more militaristic Shugenja. In Rokugan sessha would be one of the most used "I".

Chin: Last but not least is the way the Imperial family speaks. They are Gods, you are ants! It is that simple. Chin places you high above everyone, only the Imperial family would speak such a word as only they are worthy of it. This "I" carries power, only character such a the Winds and Daigotsu would ever dare use such a word. For anyone else to use it would surely have him killed for impersonating the royal family. I`d like to finish this article by stating that some of the things I`ve written only apply to old Japanese and that some of those words(such as Chin) aren`t used anymore.

If you have any additional questions to hesitate to write to me, Kijutsu.

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